Expressing gratitude and acknowledging support are crucial for finding peace in life. It’s during moments of sorrow that we truly appreciate those who stand by us. Loss touches us all eventually, but having supportive people lightens that burden of grief.
Acknowledgement cards, often known as thank you cards, are a heartfelt way to appreciate those who offered help and comfort during the loss of a loved one. Whether they assisted with the funeral arrangements, sent flowers, or simply attended, these cards convey our heartfelt thanks.
Who Should Receive Acknowledgement Cards?
Traditionally, recipients include those who sent personal condolences, mass cards, flowers, made charitable donations (charities usually provide donor lists), and those who traveled to attend the funeral. Clergy members who officiated and anyone who went above and beyond in their support also deserve acknowledgment. Ultimately, trust your instincts and consult with close family and friends to compile a list that feels right to you.
When to Send Acknowledgement Cards?
There’s no strict timeline for sending these cards; it’s about finding the right moment for you. Typically, they are sent within 2-4 weeks after the funeral or around the “months mind.” However, some prefer to send them later, sometimes months or even a year afterward, reflecting personal readiness.
Acknowledgement Card Details
Main Heading
The first thing to consider is the main title or heading on the card. This usually appears just above the text on our single-sided cards and also features on the front of our double-sided cards. You can choose from our standard headings or create your own. Our standard headings include:
- In Grateful Appreciation
- With Sincere Thanks
- With Thanks
- Thank You
- Thanks
Photos
Traditionally, many acknowledgement cards did not include a photo of the deceased, but we offer this option on all of our cards. Most of our customers now choose to include a photo. Whether you decide to include one is entirely up to you—there’s no right or wrong choice.
Subheading/Secondary Heading
After the photo, the main text typically includes a subheading, the name of the deceased, relevant dates, a thank you verse, and sometimes mass information. The secondary heading usually precedes the name, and you can select one of our standard headings or provide your own. Our standard options include:
- “The wife and family of the late………..”
- “The husband and family of the late………”
- “The wife of the late……….”
- “The husband of the late……….”
- “The family of the late……….”
Name & Dates
Following the secondary heading, you’ll include the name and relevant dates. Typically, this is just the first and last name, but some choose to include a nickname or a maiden name (e.g., Mary Fagan Née Power). You can also include dates such as birth, death, or age at death, depending on your preference.
Main Thank You Text
This is perhaps the most important part of the acknowledgement card. You can choose from our standard verses or write your own message. If you prefer, we can leave this section blank so you can include a handwritten note. Some popular verses include:
- “[The family] would like to thank you most sincerely for your kind expression of sympathy in their recent sad loss.”
- “[The family] deeply appreciates and gratefully acknowledges your kind expression of sympathy.”
- “[The family] wish to thank you for the expressions of sympathy and kindness you have shown during their moment of sorrow. We are truly grateful for your love and support.”
Secondary Main Text/Mass Information
The final piece of text generally includes mass information or a final thank you. This is entirely optional. If you choose to include it, you can select from one of our standard texts or provide your own. Our standard options include:
- “The Holy Sacrifice of the Mass has been offered for your intentions …”
- “The Holy Sacrifice of the Mass will be offered for your intentions…”
- “Always in our prayers, forever in our hearts…”
- “May God Bless You….”
- “Thank you for your kindness and thoughtfulness…..”
The Difference Between Acknowledgement Cards & Memorial Cards
It’s easy to mix up acknowledgement cards and memorial cards, as both may feature a photo, name, and dates. However, there are key differences. Acknowledgement cards are similar to greeting cards and are not designed for durability. Memorial cards, on the other hand, are laminated and made to last, serving as a long-term keepsake.
Acknowledgement Card Pricing
Acknowledgement cards tend to be more affordable than memorial cards, as they involve fewer finishing steps and require less time to produce. Our cards are printed to a high standard on thick silk finish 400 gsm cardstock. Prices start at €59.00, with the latest pricing available on our website.
Conclusion
We hope this guide helps clarify the process of ordering and personalising acknowledgement cards. Should you need assistance or have questions about our card options, feel free to contact us . We’re here to support you through this journey and have the empathy, experience and understanding .